Hartwell House is heaven for mums 

Liz Nicholls

Thanks to the mother of all afternoon teas, divine dinners, sumptuous spa & beautiful bedrooms, Hartwell House is fit for a queen 

Queen Marie Josephine (Louis XVIII’s wife) is one of the residents who have called Hartwell House home. And today, it’s the perfect venue to treat your mum like a queen, top to toe.   

Hartwell House Rear

Owned by the National Trust and filled with antique treasures, this Grade-I listed stately home is no ordinary hotel. It’s part of living history. A Jacobean jewel nestled amid 94 acres of gloriously green Capability Brown garden and parkland, this majestic residence dates back nearly 1,000 years to Edward the Confessor. Hartwell House was mentioned in the Doomsday Book as belonging to William Peverel, a natural son of William the Conqueror.  

Lovingly restored by Historic House Hotels, there are 48 superbly appointed bedrooms and suites, award-winning dining and a spa offering 111SKIN Harley Street London treatments, the luxury anti-ageing skincare range created by aesthetic surgeon Dr Yannis Alexandrides. 

Having hosted royalty, presidents and everyone in between, Hartwell House can boast superbly friendly staff who treat every guest like royalty, which is why judges have awarded it four Red Stars: the AA’s supreme accolade for hotels. 

Afternoon tea takes pride of place in the Great Hall – the oldest part of the house – which is richly ornate, warm and welcoming with open fireplaces. From the floral china to the magical macarons and stunningly light scones, this is a treat of fairytale proportions. As we’re celebrating tea this month, special mention to the whole page of fine teas to choose from (I recommend the chocolate brownie). This free-flowing infusion is the perfect accompaniment for a feast of delicate finger sandwiches and pastries so indulgent, you’ll wonder why the French didn’t try to settle here permanently.  

The interior is a mix of gorgeously Georgian, with rococo marble chimney pieces, decorative ceilings and a baroque great hall. Perfectly pink, ladies can glide up the grand stairway, watched by a brilliantly bonkers party of carved figures (look out for Winston Churchill and a rather unflattering Maggie Thatcher). B&B stays start from £295 per room (including use of the spa facilities) and the rooms are more like palatial apartments, featuring sumptuous four-poster beds and breathtaking views of the grounds. Some have names (the Duchess d’Angouleme room was once occupied by the Louis XVI’s daughter), all are infused in history but with all mod cons, and some are even doggie-friendly. 

You’re invited to dress for dinner (after a cocktail in the library) in the dining room, all concave mirrors and trompe l’oeil, designed in the style of Sir John Soane, and based on a room in 11 Downing Street. Executive Head Chef Daniel Richardson has been at Hartwell House for 30 years (it’s the sort of place that inspires loyalty) who works closely with local suppliers and the hotel’s gardening team to create exquisite dishes that celebrate seasonal produce as well as an award-winning wine cellar. 

For more info, spa & dinner packages visit hartwell-house.com or call 01296 747444.

Great Missenden Choral Society spring concert 

Liz Nicholls

Great Missenden Choral Society invite you to enjoy their spring concert at 7.30pm on Saturday, 12th April, at the historic St Peter and St Paul Church 

Great Missenden Choral Society provide a wonderful opportunity to hear Robert Schumann’s rarely performed but extraordinary Requiem and the ever-popular Messa di Gloria by Puccini. 

The contrast between these great nineteenth-century choral works could hardly be greater: Schumann’s Requiem was written by an ill man at the end of his life, but abounds with astoundingly beautiful and energetic music, as well as startling dramatic climaxes.  

Puccini was only in his early twenties when he wrote the Messa di Gloria, but its toe-tapping tunes, powerful harmony, and the sheer originality of his setting of the words clearly indicated that here was a young composer was destined for great things on the world stage. 

The choir will be joined by the St John’s Chamber Orchestra and soloists from the Royal College of Music conducted by Alex Flood. 

Tickets

Tickets are £17.50pp (students and children £10) and you can buy yours from Wye Country, 36B High Street, Great Missenden, or else visit gmcsonline.co.uk 

You will also find more information about the choir and opportunities to join as a singer or a Friend, at the same website: gmcsonline.co.uk 

Amchor shine with Haydn’s Creation sell-out 

Liz Nicholls

Ann Flood reviews the recent concert by Amchor – Amersham Choral Society – with the British Sinfionetta, ahead of the choir’s next highlight at St Mary’s Church on 17th May  

“Reviving showers of rain” – so sang the Baritone soloist at Amchor’s last concert; in fact, the weather braved by the large and enthusiastic audience was considerably worse than this!  

The orchestral introduction, musically bold for its time, represents pre-creational “chaos”. Here the orchestra, in this case the British Sinfonietta, showed its professional capabilities and sensitivity to the direction of conductor Nick Austin. The orchestra provides but one element of the three essential components of the piece, the others being the group of three solo singers and – of course – the chorus. Singers of course know what is coming, but must restrain their voices until the affirmation of “Light” at its “creation” in glorious C major. At the climax Amchor passed the test with splendid sound. 

As with any amateur choir, concerted loud sections come over quite thrillingly, as was the case in the opening and closing bars of the final chorus. Much of the wonderful second Achieved is the Glorious Work chorus lies notably high for sopranos. One would not expect every singer to manage all these high notes, but they were nonetheless present. The Bass section did well in the usual underpinning role; the harmony would be nowhere without those vital unexpected B flats towards the end of The Heavens are Telling. Confessing to a natural prejudice in their favour, this reviewer believes that a good Alto section is at the heart of a good choir. Seldom given the chance for showy display, the Altos hold the texture together and give tone and internal body to a choir’s sound. They, of all parts, need to be permanently “on the ball” – which Amchor’s altos were. 

The trio of young solo singers: baritone, Hector Bloggs, soprano, Iúnó Connolly and tenor, Sebastian Hill, presented impressive CVs and impressed in different ways. Conductor Nick Austin presided affably and drew some lovely playing. 

AMCHOR’s next concert, Rutter: Requiem and Magnificat , is at 7.30pm on Saturday, 17th May, at St. Mary’s Church in Old Amersham, with Aylesbury Festival Choir. 

Get your tickets

Tickets are available from The Record Shop Amersham, in Hill Avenue and from Perfect Pitch in The Broadway, Chesham, £20pp, £10 for students, under-16s free. Please contact 07748 154089 with any ticket enquiries. 

Paul Zerdin dazzles with Jaw Drop 

Liz Nicholls

Image by: Steve Ullathorne

The winner of America’s Got Talent 2015, Paul Zerdin is heading back out on tour with his new show Jaw Drop 

Expect a night of laughter and jaw-dropping entertainment featuring the remarkable talents of ventriloquist Paul, with a show that brings to life his delightful cast of characters including Sam, the cocky teenager; Albert, the 96-year-old with a razor-sharp wit; and the Baby, who hilariously believes the world revolves around him. Adding to the hilarity are Paul’s dim-witted American bodyguard Roger and an outrageous Urban Fox. This tour also marks the return of Paul’s TV and radio personality character, Alasdair Rimmer, who is eager to make a comeback with Paul’s help.  The evening will also include his famous human dummy routine with an exciting new twist.  

“It’s a shock that I’m actually going to go out on tour again with this bunch of misfits! It wasn’t my idea it was theirs! They said if I didn’t go they’d clone me with AI and do the show without me! The lunatics have taken over the asylum! Sam is scheming, Albert’s rapping and Baby is now an influencer! Roger my American bodyguard cannot get over how small the roads are in the UK and thinks the potholes are the work of aliens!”  

Get your tickets

The show will visit The Stables in Milton Keynes on 13th September, the Haymarket in Basingstoke on 16th October, and more… 

For tickets visit https://paulzerdin.com/#tour  

Tony Worsdall’s journey to sobriety 

Liz Nicholls

Berkshire’s Tony Worsdall shares his journey to sobriety and becoming a sobriety coach 

Like many people of my generation, I began drinking alcohol at the age of 14, drinking cheap alcohol in the fields before Ed Sheeran made a great song out of the experience! It was a rite of passage, something we did to feel a sense of belonging. Drinking and smoking were the things that marked the transition into adult life and made me feel part of the “scene” which included regular club and discos in the days of reggae, James Brown and soul. 

My 40+ year career in professional services was closely tied to regular alcohol consumption. I never hit “rock bottom”, and I always believed my drinking was just part of life. Starting my own business 25 years ago brought its challenges, and alcohol was my go-to stress reliever and “social glue” when my teams needed to unwind. There were a few moments I’d rather forget (if I could remember them!). 

As time went on, I realised that alcohol was not serving me well. During the periods when I took a break from drinking, I felt healthier and more capable. I became curious about alcohol and began devouring everything I could find on the subject. Despite learning the harsh truths about alcohol, I couldn’t see an easy way to give up something that had been a part of my life for more than 40 years. 

In 2020, support for “grey-area drinkers” was limited. A TEDx talk by Jolene Park (which you can watch at sobersixty.com, helped define this concept). I discovered that changing lifelong habits was possible with the right support, which I found through The Sober Club. 

I finally broke free in January 2020. The fear of the impending lockdown and retirement, combined with extra time on my hands, propelled me into action – an action I’ve never regretted and wish I had taken years earlier. 

In 2022, I decided to train as a sobriety coach to give back to people who, like me, saw no easy way to give up something that had been a part of their lives for many years. SoberSixty, named because I began this journey in my 60th year, launched last February. I work with individuals who have decided to change their relationship with alcohol, particularly “grey-area drinkers”. Working as a coach and helping clients set and achieve their goals has been an incredibly rewarding experience. It’s also a reminder that encouraging open conversations, especially among men, about anxiety and concerns is vital in our increasingly digital world. 

For anyone questioning their relationship with alcohol, here are three things you can do: 

1. Read and listen to as much as you can about the subject, including personal journeys and the science behind this drug. 

2. Find your tribe – like-minded people are essential to maintain your resolve. 

3. Tell someone – be accountable to someone you trust and to yourself. 

P.S. Today I celebrate five years of my alcohol-free life. I’m so grateful to the people I’ve met and worked with along the way who have helped me understand how rewarding and fulfilling life can be. Here’s to the next five years of this wonderful life. sobersixty.com 

Weekend Journals showcases Oxfordshire’s best bits 

Liz Nicholls

An inspirational new handbook for design-conscious travellers, features a curated selection of destinations across the county… which is your favourite? 

Oxfordshire by Weekend Journals is the definitive guide to exploring this beautiful county. Featuring more than 40 venues, the Weekend Journals team have handpicked their favourite places from boutique hotels to prestigious museums, independent shops to recently opened restaurants, cosy pubs to delicious bakeries.  

The book is written by Milly Kenny-Ryder and the photography is all by Gabriel Kenny-Ryder. This dynamic brother-and-sister team are joined by designer Simon Lovell (Milly’s husband) who together have created the vision for Weekend Journals and created all the content exclusively.  

Using their local connections and extensive knowledge, this beautiful guide book whisks you away to discover the finest venues, most unique businesses, and uncover lots of insider tips. Showcasing the history, culture and stories behind some of Oxfordshire’s most iconic sites.  

The book includes exclusive interviews with well-known Oxfordshire creatives: Chef Raymond Blanc OBE and Nigel and Louise Johnson of the Burford Garden Company – who both share favourite places from their home count.

RRP £18; visit weekendjournals.co.uk

Discover Waddesdon Manor’s snowdrops & more 

Liz Nicholls

Image: Chris Lacey

As the season changes, Waddesdon Manor’s historic gardens transform into a winter spectacle, so why not plan a visit? 

Waddesdon’s striking French Renaissance-style château is surrounded by expansive parkland and manicured gardens, originally designed in the late 19th century for Baron Ferdinand de Rothschild. Each season brings its own charm, but winter holds a special magic with early spring-flowering snowdrops, striking winter shrubs, and picturesque views that are only visible before the trees come into leaf.  

Image: Chris Lacey

This February, swathes of snowdrops will create impressive displays across Waddesdon’s gardens, including at the top of Daffodil Valley, the Tulip Patch and Baron’s Walk, where both single and double-flowering varieties flourish in the secluded woodland. A particularly poignant feature is the expanse of 83,000 snowdrop bulbs planted in 2019 in memory of the late Lady Rothschild—one thousand bulbs for each year of her life—forming a magnificent tribute between the Aviary Garden, Rose Garden, and Tay Bridge that continues to captivate visitors.  

For those eager to explore further, Waddesdon’s wider estate includes Eythrope, a private Rothschild garden boasting more than 70 different snowdrop varieties. Introduced in the early 1990s, these delicate blooms flourish near the walled kitchen garden and in naturalised drifts beneath the trees in the parkland and woodland garden. Exclusive Eythrope Parkland Spring Tours provide an opportunity to enjoy these displays, available by guided tour only and including lunch and Grounds admission to Waddesdon. 

Did you know… 

  • In 2019, an additional 83,000 snowdrop bulbs were planted in Waddesdon’s gardens in memory of the late Lady Rothschild. 
  • Over 100,000 daffodil bulbs transform Daffodil Valley into carpet of yellow each year. 
  • For Spring 2025, nearly 20,000 daffodil, tulip, and hyacinth bulbs, along with over 19,000 bedding plants, will create seasonal formal bedding displays at the Parterre, Aviary, and North Avenue. 

Thames Valley Gay Chorus welcome you  

Liz Nicholls

Join Thames Valley Gay Chorus for a special performance on 5th April at Reading Minster. Peter Anderson tells us more about this supportive LGBTQIA+ choir 

There’s no place like home… Thames Valley Gay Chorus will explore this through song at Reading Minster in St Mary’s Butts on 5th April, conducted by their musical director, Christopher Wray.  

The choir will take the audience through popular songs from recent decades, including Stand By Me, Downtown & Chosen Family

Thames Valley Gay Chorus are a dedicated LGBTQIA+ choir who seek to foster a safe space for all members of the LGBTQIA+ community. They have sung for the Reading Trans Day of Remembrance Service on many occasions. In 2023, they were hosted in recording for this by the Minster Church, and for the service in 2024, they finished by backing trans soloist Asifa Lahore, singing Stand by Me

When the theme was picked for this concert last autumn, home seemed to be a recurrent theme that ran through many of the songs in their repertoire. They had little idea that a sanctuary and safe place for trans and non-binary people could be so important in the way things have developed on the world stage. 

For the There’s No Place Like Home spring concert, Thames Valley Gay Chorus are supporting with Stonewall Housing whose team have been celebrating 40 years of support for LGBTQIA+ community who are experiencing homelessness.  

Get in touch

For more about the choir & to book tickets, visit thamesvalleygaychorus.org.uk. Also visit stonewallhousing.org or text FORTY to 70450 to donate £10.   

Star Q&A exclusive with Tom Parker Bowles 

Liz Nicholls

The Castle Hotel, Windsor, will welcome British food writer and critic Tom Parker Bowles for an exclusive Q&A event on 6th March, following the release of his latest book, Cooking & The Crown. We caught up with him about our favourite subject… FOOD! 

Tom Parker Bowles will star in an intimate evening of food, drink, and storytelling on Thursday, 6th March, at The Castle Hotel, just steps from Windsor’s iconic castle. 

The Castle Hotel, Windsor

Ticket-holders can enjoy a sneak taste of Tom’s celebrated ninth cookbook, which draws back the curtain on the royals and their eating habits, from Queen Victoria to King Charles III.  

Following extensive research, including at the Royal Archives in Windsor, Tom has documented recipes from extravagant Victorian high teas to his mother Camilla’s simple yet delicious cooking…. 

Q. Hello Tom. Your new – ninth – cookbook Cooking & the Crown sounds fascinating. Whose eating habits did you find the most fascinating and why? “Edward VII was a world-class trencherman, and an inspiration too. It was not just the range of food he loved, from the starriest peaks of haute cuisine to great British classics like roast beef, game pie and potted shrimps. But the sheer volume of food he could eat. A vast breakfast (if he was racing or shooting, which was quite a lot), elevenses of a lobster cocktail, or flask of turtle soup; lunch ran to 14 courses, tea a mighty spread, and dinner another 14 or so courses of foie gras filled, butter and cream-soaked magnificence.” 

Cover of Tom’s new book

Q. Please could you tell us your first memories of food? “I grew up in the country, and my mother was a good cook, my father a great gardener. We ate very well. Classic British food – lamb chops, baked trout, roast chicken, shepherd’s pie in winter. Then in the summer we’d go for two weeks to the island of Ischia, just off Naples, and eat some of the most wonderful south Italian food. But despite all this lovely seasonal, local and organic eating, what my sister and me really craved was cheap white bread, Ice Magic, and Monster Munch from the Chippenham Sainsbury’s. That, for us, was the real magic.” 

Q. Do you still enjoy the simple, delicious cooking as cooked by your mother The Queen? “She no longer cooks, save occasionally scrambled eggs when we’re staying with her after Christmas. She makes very good scrambled egg.” 

Q. Which is your favourite meal of the day & why? “Lunch. As it is so full of potential and possibility. Dinner is finite, whereas lunch can lead into dinner and beyond. There is no finer meal than lunch. Brunch, on the other hand, is a horrible abomination. Urgh.” 

Q. Is there anything you don’t eat or drink, and why? “I’ve eaten pretty much everything over the past 25 years, from insects and cold blood soup to pig’s penis and dog stew. I really would not recommend that last one. But it’s goat’s cheese I really can’t bear. And it annoys me, as I love every other kind of cheese. But it tastes like licking the farmyard floor. I am, though, trying to love it. Without much success.” 

Q. Please tell us a little about your love for Windsor? “I spent five very happy years just over the bridge. I did seem to spend rather too much time in McDonald’s, as well as various pubs. The Crispin, when I was 14, was a favourite, as they would serve underage boys. It was a hell of a walk away, though. As we got older, the pubs we visited grew closer to the centre. In my final years, I loved The Two Brewers, at the entrance to the Long Walk. And The Old Trout, just over the bridge.” 

Q. Also, do you visit Oxford much, and if so what are your favourite pubs or restaurants? “Yup. Love Oxford. I was at prep school there, and university too. Brown’s is, sadly, a shadow of its former self. But Kopitiam, in Summertown does great Malaysian food. Bhoomi Kitchen in Headington does excellent Southern Indian, while Oli’s Thai [in Magdalen Road, East Oxford] is a cracking place for real Thai food. Then there’s the ever wonderful Pompette, in Summertown, for really classic French bistro cooking, And, of course, the magnificent Le Manoir aux Quat’Saisons, for some of the best food in the country.” 

Q. Is there a particular ingredient or foodstuff you’re borderline obsessed with? I’m thinking Pot Noodle or similar maybe..? “Hot sauce, and anything with chilli, I can’t live without it. I also love cheap ‘cheese’ slices and most brands of instant noodles, especially Indomie and Buldak 2 x Spicy.” 

Q. Who were your foodie heroes growing up? “Keith Floyd and Delia.” 

Q.  Have you ever been star struck? “Endlessly.” 

Q. What’s your essential bit of kitchen kit? “A good knife, a wooden spoon and a Netherton Foundry frying pan.” 

Q. What’s one thing about restaurant life behind the scenes you wish diners knew? “What hard work it is to run a successful restaurant. You have to do it for love, not the thought of making cash.” 

Q. If you had a magic wand what would you wish for? “My own taco stand, flown in from Mexico City. Oh, and world peace. Obvs.” 

*Tickets, £25pp, will include a welcome glass of fizz, canapés, a signed copy of Cooking and the Crown, and access to the Q&A session.  

Book now 

Indie Oxford festival’s 10th birthday bash! 

Liz Nicholls

Indie Oxford is turning 10 and the team are inviting you to their biggest party yet, a 12-hour celebration at Tap Social Movement’s Botley on Saturday, 22nd March  

You’re all invited to this celebration of Oxfordshire’s incredible independent scene, with an exciting lineup of live music, DJs, workshops, activities and pop-ups.  

Collaborating with Wood Festival, Divine Schism, Tap Social, Simple and Young Women’s Music Project, Indie Oxford is bringing together the best of Oxfordshire’s music and indie scene all under one roof. 

Expect: 

  • Brilliant live local bands throughout the day 
  • DJs from 8pm to keep the party going 
  • Creative kids’ activities from Caper bookshop in collaboration with Wood Festival 
  • A singing workshop with Elena Harris 
  • A pop-up record store from Flow Records 
  • Coffee from Missing Bean  
  • Backgammon with Hoyle’s of Oxford 
  • Fitness fun with The Project PT and Every Body Studio 

Rosie Jacobs, co-founder of Indie Oxford, says: “This festival is a celebration of everything Indie Oxford stands for – community, creativity, and collaboration. Over the past decade, we’ve supported and championed Oxfordshire’s indie business scene, and this event is my way of saying thank you to everyone who has been part of the journey. We can’t wait to party with you all!” 

Tess Taylor, co-founder of Tap Social, adds: “Tap Social is all about bringing people together through great beer, music and community events, so we’re thrilled to be hosting the Indie Oxford Festival. It’s a fantastic opportunity to showcase and celebrate the independent businesses and artists that make Oxford so special.” 

Claire Bennett, festival manager of Wood Festival, says: “Wood Festival has always been about sustainability, community and incredible music, and we’re excited to be part of this milestone event and bring a little of Wood’s magic to the city for the day!” 

Tickets are on sale NOW via WeGotTickets 

👉Book your tickets here: https://wegottickets.com/event/649984