Celebrate your child

Karen Neville

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Jeni Kelly, BSc, SEND Education Advisor and Advocate has advice for parents on navigating SEND education

Every child has the right to an education that respects and celebrates their unique abilities.  

As a parent of a child with Special Educational Needs and Disabilities (SEND), you know the path can be both deeply rewarding and incredibly challenging. SEND education in the UK has evolved significantly, yet many families still face daunting hurdles, from accessing the right resources to understanding the educational pathways available. You’re not alone if you’re feeling overwhelmed or uncertain about where to turn. As a SEND Advocate I support parents from the earliest steps in their SEND journey, attending mediation and other meetings and supporting parents at the SEND tribunal.  

If your child/young person finds education difficult, it may indicate an unmet need or Special Educational Need (SEN). Any concerns should be discussed with your child’s school. Ask if: Your child is progressing? and Your child is progressing in line with their peers? 

If the answer to either of these questions is no, then you need to know what your child’s school is doing to support them. 

Education in the UK is designed to support children with a wide range of needs, including learning difficulties, sensory impairments, developmental disorders, mental health and physical disabilities. Support can be given through mainstream or special education. Schools have an SEN budget to fund resources and support for those with additional needs, including Special Educational Needs and Disabilities (SEND). While the system aims to provide every child with an opportunity to reach their potential, identifying and then accessing the right support can be a complex process. 

Parents often face barriers such as:

• Long waiting times for assessments and EHCPs
• Communication gaps with schools, local authorities and SENDcos
• Limited access to specialist resources and funding
• Social, emotional and mental health support

Practical advice for parents

These strategies may help you overcome these challenges and advocate effectively for your child:
• Seek early support as soon as you have concerns
• Early intervention can make a significant difference
• Know and understand our rights
• Knowing your rights will empower you to advocate confidently for your child’s needs.
• Develop strong relationships with education professionals

Access local resources and support networks

Many local authorities offer services specifically for SEND families, including sensory-friendly play spaces and support groups for parents. These are opportunities for you to connect with other parents.

As a SEND education advisor, I support families through every stage of the process, from early conversations with schools to securing appropriate provision in the classroom.

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