Astrology & Tarot for December

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What’s in store for you this month? Melanie Harding, founder of Soul Healing Guidance, offers her new monthly guides for all signs…

Aries (March 21–April 19)

The early December Full Moon illuminates distant horizons, calling you toward journeys that may expand your mind and spirit. Mercury’s entry into Sagittarius whispers of fresh ideas and encounters, perhaps inspiring plans that stretch beyond the familiar. Around the 14th, this Mars– Neptune moment carries a veil-like quality; trust your instincts, but let the fog lift before acting, particularly in matters of the heart or ambition. Mars stirring your career sector from the 15th brings quiet momentum, nudging you toward achievements that feel both earned and thrilling. The New Moon on the 19th may encourage travel with loved ones or an internal journey of reflection. As Sun and Venus shine in Capricorn from the 21st, the year’s end offers recognition and a satisfying sense of completion, leaving you feeling quietly triumphant yet reflective.

Tarot: The Chariot — Momentum is yours, but the journey asks for mindful focus. Push forward, yet stay aware of detours or illusions. Victory comes through balance of inner will and external circumstances.

Taurus (April 20–May 20)

December calls attention to security, resources, and the subtle threads that tie your world together. The Full Moon on the 4th illuminates shared finances or emotional investments, offering a moment to sense where stability truly lies. Mercury in Sagittarius from the 11th encourages reflection and seeking guidance, whether through trusted advisors or intuition. Mars entering your 9th house from the 15th opens pathways for learning or travel that resonate deeply, each step stirring curiosity and subtle excitement. The New Moon on the 19th hints at gifts, bonuses, or unlooked-for generosity, a reminder that abundance can arrive in unexpected forms. Sun and Venus in Capricorn from the 21st warm the closing weeks of the year, encouraging a grounding of pleasures and comfort. Mars– Neptune energy near Christmas Eve invites discernment; act with patience and heart.

Tarot: Six of Pentacles – Flow of giving and receiving, balance and generosity. Wealth and emotional abundance appear when awareness and care guide your actions.

Gemini (May 21–June 20)

Connections shimmer in early December, inviting dialogue that may open doors to emotional depth. The Full Moon on the 4th highlights boundaries, encouraging honesty with both yourself and others. Mercury in Sagittarius from the 11th empowers discussion and reflection, while the Mercury–Pluto sextile on the 13th hints at transformative conversations that touch the core of relationships. Mars in Capricorn from the 15th channels focus into practical ambitions, making space for both financial and personal growth. The New Moon on the 19th may herald new partnerships, romantic, business, or collaborative that feel aligned with your path. Mars–Neptune energy reminds you to listen to subtle cues and let intuition guide decisions.

Tarot: Two of Cups — Emotional alignment and harmony, offering connection and mutual understanding. Relationships can deepen when hearts are open and intentions clear.

Cancer (June 21–July 22)

December hums with activity, yet fleeting moments of stillness are essential. The Full Moon on the 4th encourages reflection, grounding, and reclaiming your inner space before the month’s demands resume. Mercury in Sagittarius guides your communication and planning, often behind the scenes, while Mars in Capricorn from the 15th energises leadership and purposeful action. The New Moon on the 19th may bring recognition or reward for diligent effort, a nod to the care you invest in work and loved ones. Sun and Venus in the relationship zone from the 21st invite warmth, comfort, and shared joy, reminding you that giving to others is most fulfilling when balanced with self-nurturing. Mars–Neptune energy suggests patience and sensitivity; act with your intuition.

Tarot: The Empress — Abundance and care, a reminder that nurturing yourself is as vital as nurturing others. Creativity and comfort flourish when attention is turned inward as well as outward.

Leo (July 23–August 22)

Romance, celebration, and creative expression glow under the December skies. The Full Moon on the 4th stirs social energy, highlighting moments of connection that feel both thrilling and illuminating. Mercury in Sagittarius from the 11th sharpens communication, allowing heartfelt expression to bridge gaps. Mars in the 6th house from the 15th motivates practical completion of work and personal projects. The New Moon on the 19th offers opportunities for love or creative beginnings that feel aligned with your spirit. Mars–Neptune energy on the 20th suggests moderation; trust subtle guidance rather than impulses. Sun and Venus joining Mars from the 21st illuminate recognition and festive celebration, offering a golden glow to achievements and personal expression.

Tarot: The Sun — Vitality, clarity, and joy. Radiance attracts opportunity and affection, yet true fulfilment flows from aligning external success with your inner light.

Virgo (August 23–September 22)

Home, family, and intimate spaces pulse with energy and purpose. The Full Moon on the 4th may bring resolution in career or personal projects, offering a sense of closure and release. Mercury opposing Uranus could spark tension, but Mars–Neptune energy encourages listening beyond surface conflict and trusting intuition. Mars in your love sector from the 15th warms emotional and creative passions, while the New Moon on the 19th heralds beginnings in personal life or home matters. Sun and Venus in Capricorn from the 21st bless domestic joy, inviting festive harmony and intimate celebration.

Tarot: Four of Wands — Stability, milestones, and shared joy. Personal and domestic achievements bring deep satisfaction, illuminated through connection and presence.

Libra (September 23–October 22)

December carries a rhythm of movement, errands, and communication. The Full Moon on the 4th may highlight short journeys or meaningful travel, offering a pause to reflect on relationships and responsibilities. Mercury in Sagittarius from the 11th smooths dialogue and quick planning, while Mars in the domestic sector from the 15th draws energy homeward. The New Moon on the 19th is ripe for invitations, planning, and festive beginnings. Sun and Venus in the 4th house from the 21st enhance domestic gatherings and familial warmth. Mars–Neptune energy near Christmas Eve suggests patience; subtle miscommunications may arise, and gentle discernment will guide you.

Tarot: Temperance — Balance, blending, and harmony. Moderate approaches bring resolution and serenity in interactions, guiding shared moments with care and mindfulness.

Scorpio (October 23–November 21)

Financial focus and subtle currents illuminate the month. The Full Moon on the 4th asks you to consider what must be released or reorganised. Mercury in Sagittarius from the 11th opens doors for inspired planning, while Mars in Capricorn from the 15th energises movement, travel, and tangible action. The New Moon on the 19th may herald unexpected gifts, bonuses, or opportunities, blending the practical with the unseen. Sun and Venus in Capricorn from the 21st offer steady support, helping you navigate both ambition and intuition. Mars–Neptune energy invites quiet listening and discernment, particularly in financial or emotional decisions.

Tarot: Ace of Pentacles — Opportunities for growth and reward. Prosperity aligns when insight and
practical action work together, creating a foundation for lasting security.

Sagittarius (November 22–December 21)

Your personal expression, relationships, and presence shimmer under December skies. The Full Moon on the 4th highlights connection, while Mercury in your sign from the 11th empowers honest communication. Mars in Capricorn from the 15th channels ambition and effort, while the New Moon on the 19th offers subtle opportunities for personal reinvention. Sun and Venus in your money sector from the 21st provide grounding and support for both financial and emotional matters. Mars–Neptune’s fog suggests reflection and inner guidance over impulsive action.

Tarot: Knight of Wands — Courage, bold action, and inspired pursuit. Movement and initiative bring adventure, yet the heart must guide the way to avoid hasty mistakes.

Capricorn (December 22–January 19)

The cosmos hums behind the scenes, supporting quiet but effective effort. The Full Moon on the 4th illuminates tasks needing closure, while Mercury in Sagittarius from the 11th reveals hidden truths or insights. Mars in your sign from the 15th energises determination, giving you the stamina to complete pressing matters. The New Moon on the 19th suggests gentle self-care and introspection. Sun enters your sign on the 21st, followed by Venus on the 24th, bathing you in recognition and personal illumination. Mars–Neptune energy encourages acting from intuition rather than haste.

Tarot: The Magician — Skill, intention, and manifestation. Alignment of thought, heart, and action
transforms possibility into tangible reality.

Aquarius (January 20–February 18)

Friendship, connection, and celebration pulse through your December. The Full Moon on the 4th favours social and romantic gatherings, while Mercury in Sagittarius from the 11th smooths dialogue and shared plans. Mars in your unseen sector from the 15th offers reflective energy, encouraging balance after active social weeks. The New Moon on the 19th may highlight key personal or social opportunities. Sun and Venus in Capricorn from the 21st favour intimate, quiet celebrations, allowing deep connection amidst holiday bustle. Mars–Neptune’s veil suggests pacing and listening to subtle currents.

Tarot: Three of Cups — Joy, celebration, and shared warmth. Emotional resonance flows through friendships and kinship; connection and laughter bring emotional nourishment.

Pisces (February 19–March 20)

Career, visibility, and intuition intertwine this month. The Full Moon on the 4th encourages completing tasks and recognising accomplishments. Neptune stations direct on the 10th, heightening creativity and insight. Mercury on the 11th lends persuasive power, while the New Moon on the 19th may open career or personal opportunities. Sun and Venus in Capricorn from the 21st illuminate festive gatherings and social energy. Mars–Neptune’s fog invites reflection and inspiration; trust your intuition before acting.

Tarot: The Star — Renewal, hope, and guidance. Creative inspiration and spiritual insight illuminate the path; alignment with dreams and vision opens doors to growth and fulfilment.

Your dog’s wishlist

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Think carefully about what your pooch wants for Christmas

The Christmas festivities that make this season so magical for us might not be quite so enjoyable for our dogs. With affected routines, more busyness and some pretty out-of-the-ordinary happenings going on, here are some ways to help your pooch navigate this bonkers season. 

We all have extra demands placed on us at Christmas-time, but if you can stick as much as possible to doggo’s daily routine – meals, walks, training and play – what, when, where and how – this offers predictability and a sense of control for your dog, which can make the other non-routine stuff seem less challenging.  

If you’re expecting more guests than usual, create a safe quiet space your dog can head off to if things get a bit much and keep it completely out of bounds from human bothering.  

One of the great joys of dog ownership is heading out with our companions on a walk, to the pub, exploring new places… It is worth considering how busy and challenging these things will be: streets might be busy with shoppers, pubs will have more patrons in Christmas merriment and anywhere new that might tempt you with markets, lights and elves will be likely tempting lots of other people through the doors too. Although I am all for sharing these special experiences with loved ones, consider, from your dog’s perspective, if they’d get similar enjoyment out of it as you or would they be happier snoring on their own bed at home? Keep an eye out for stress behaviours while out and about and if anything does upset your pup, give them more distance to help them find their comfort zone again and offer up lots of fuss and treats for being so brave. 

As far as Christmas wishlists are concerned, your dog’s one is likely very simple: 

– To feel safe 

– To spend lots of quality time with their favourite human(s) 

–  To steal a bit of unguarded turkey when the opportunity arises. 

With love, Zara 

More Than Sit Dog Training 

Care at Christmas

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Help your elderly loved ones experience the festive joy too with your presence not presents

As Christmas draws near, our thoughts turn to festive gatherings, shared meals, and time with loved ones. But while many of us look forward to the season, it can be a difficult time for older people, especially those who are alone, managing health concerns, or coping with loss. As we prepare for the holidays, it’s a good time to reflect not only on how we can include older family members in our celebrations, but also on how we can better support their needs moving forward. 

Older generations have given so much to their families and communities. Now, they deserve our care, compassion, and attention, particularly at a time of year that can amplify feelings of loneliness. Whether they live alone, with family, or in care homes, they need to feel valued and connected. Sometimes, the greatest gift we can offer is our time – whether that’s a visit, a phone call, or simply including them in our Christmas plans. 

The festive season can also be a useful time to gently re-evaluate the care needs of an older loved one. Are they coping well at home? Is mobility becoming an issue? Are they getting out and socialising, or showing signs of isolation or confusion? These questions are important, and noticing changes now can help prevent bigger problems later. Christmas often brings families together, making it a natural opportunity to assess whether more support might be needed, whether that’s additional help at home, regular companionship, or even exploring short-term care options. 

Respite care is one option that many people don’t realise is available through care homes. This allows elderly individuals to stay in a professional, supportive environment for a short period, often during times when family carers need a break, are going away, or simply need time to recharge. Far from being a last resort, respite stays can be a positive experience, offering social interaction, activities and expert care in a warm, festive setting. 

For caregivers, who often give tirelessly throughout the year, respite care can be a welcome relief, helping to reduce stress and avoid burn-out. For elderly individuals, it’s an opportunity to experience a different setting, make new friends, and sometimes even enjoy Christmas in a vibrant community atmosphere. 

This Christmas, let’s look beyond the presents and think about presence – being there for our elderly loved ones in meaningful ways. By checking in, spending time, and considering whether their care needs have changed, we can help ensure that they feel supported, safe, and part of the joy this season is meant to bring. 

La dolce vita doughnut dream 

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Quirky luxe doughnuts are selling like hotcakes and the hot foodie dish right now. Would you travel to London for one? Millie Deere did… 

Bombolone bakery feels like stepping into a sweet shop married with an early 1900s train carriage. Warm orb lighting casts a sumptuous glow on the duck egg blue tiled counter and burnt orange walls. Red stripey cake boxes and sweet clementines watch over pistachio tiramisu cooling in the fridge. Most importantly, doughnuts proudly line the counter, fat and frosted, in their glass cases. Doughnuts thick and fluffy. Doughnuts packed with nutty creams and iced with banoffee swirls. Bombolone doughnuts. 

These were nothing like I’d ever had before. Bombolone was founded by a couple, Sonia and Paweł, who fell in love with bomboloni on a trip to Tuscany. The Italian doughnuts are traditionally eaten warm, rolled in sugar, and packed with crema pasticciera (a thick custard) or jam. 

A fun fact is that their name literally translates to “big bombs”, which I can assure you is highly apt for the gustatory explosion I experienced in Bombolone; I felt like Remi when he closes his eyes and sees fireworks while eating strawberries and cheese in Ratatouille. The bakery offers an unparalleled variety of flavours, and I only wish I could have tried them all. 

Blueberry, rose, banoffee pie, apple pie, pistachio, cheesecake, strawberry, and crème brûlée are just a few of the flavours tempting you in at the counter, and that’s just the sweet ones. The savoury sandwiches are made with the same dough as the sweet doughnuts, which sets Bombolone apart from your standard dining experience. The Pastrami Bravo was the first time I have ever had a pickle in a brioche bun, and, honestly, I’ll never go back. Their new falafel filling has also just been released. 

What’s more, the team are warm, attentive, and passionate about Bombolone’s story and the authenticity of its flavours. The tiramisu cream is a homemade recipe and a must-try. 

Though only being open for three months, it’s no surprise that Bombolone is a favourite for any Londoner with a sweet tooth. Word has clearly spread, as customer reviews online are raving, and people are making trips from all over the city. It’s the perfect spot for everything: a sweet treat with the kids, a date with a best friend, or a post-work natter and sugar fix with a favourite colleague. 

Location: 21 Whitcomb Street in Piccadilly 

Celebrate Small Business Saturday

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Shop local and show your support and join the celebration of our independent traders on December 6th

Small businesses are the cornerstone of our communities, from plumbers to publicans, shopkeepers to solicitors, they help grow our economies and our lives.

Small Business Saturday – this year on December 6th – is the UK’s most successful small business campaign. Over the decade it has been running in the UK it has engaged millions of people and seen milions of pounds spent with local retailers and trades across the UK on the day, with an impact that lasts all year round and you can help make that difference.

There are around five and a half million small firms in this country which continue to face an array of economic challenges. As Michelle Ovens, Director of Small Business Saturday says: “Small businesses are the nation’s favourite businesses – bringing immeasurable value to our local communities and powering the wider economy.

“From family-run cafés and local restaurants, to independent makers, services and traders, public support makes all the difference as independent firms enter their most critical quarter of the year.”

Supporting small businesses helps to:

create jobs locally

contribute to the character of your neighbourhood

offer unique products and services

provide a higher level of customer service

prioritise sustainability & environmental benefits

On Small Business Saturday, customers are encouraged to go out and support all types from independent shops and restaurants, to small service and b2b businesses like accountants and electricians. Many much-loved indies take an active role in promoting the day by hosting events and offering promotions.

Dementia Oxfordshire marks 10 years 

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The Dementia Oxfordshire support service is marking its 10-year anniversary 

A diagnosis of dementia can feel overwhelming.  Although trials of new drugs have recently offered hope for the future many people feel lost and overwhelmed when they first receive the news, with no idea of where to turn next. 

Thankfully, Age UK Oxfordshire set up Dementia Oxfordshire ten years ago this month. If you’ve just been diagnosed, you’ll be offered a referral to Dementia Oxfordshire and within two weeks, a friendly dementia adviser will get in touch and stay in contact for as long as you need support. There are 20+ dementia advisers across the county. Each one has an in-depth knowledge of local services and activities that can improve life for people with dementia, their carers, and families. 

During the past decade, the service has grown and adapted. Today, as well as team of dementia advisers, Dementia Oxfordshire has its own Admiral Nurse (specialist dementia nurse) to help in complex cases, specialist Young Onset Dementia Advisers who support people diagnosed before the age of 65, and a dedicated benefits adviser who can help families make sure they have the financial support they need. 

The team also run a programme of online and in-person information sessions, focussing on understanding symptoms and helping carers to develop strategies to cope well. There are Dementia Oxfordshire clinics across the county too, where anyone can drop in to chat to a Dementia Adviser, plus a Support Line that is also open to everyone with questions about dementia. 

Addressing hearing loss, keeping active and staying connected are all known to help minimise the risk of and slow the progression of dementia, so organised groups and activities are a key part of what Dementia Oxfordshire offers, including walking & singing groups! 

To find out more about the services provided by Dementia Oxfordshire, visit dementiaoxfordshire.org.uk or call the support line on 01865 410210. “ 

Spread Christmas cheer with kindness 

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Could you help the Kindness in Bucks team spread festive sparkle with their 2025 Shoe Box Appeal? 

Christmas conjures up images of twinkling lights, joyful gatherings, and gifts exchanged with love. But countless families face a very different festive season – one overshadowed by financial stress and uncertainty. That’s why Alison and Hannah, founders of Kindness in Bucks are once again stepping up to sprinkle some much-needed Christmas magic. 

Now in its third year, the Christmas Shoe Box Appeal has become a tradition of kindness that continues to grow thanks to the incredible generosity of our community. 

When the appeal launched in 2023, just over 100 boxes were lovingly packed and distributed to families in need. By 2024, that number had more than doubled, with 205 boxes brimming with thoughtful gifts delivered across Bucks. 

This year, the charity is dreaming even bigger – aiming to bring joy to hundreds more families, children, expectant mums, and even local fire service teams who work tirelessly to keep us safe. Each shoe box is more than just a parcel. Inside, you’ll find a mix of festive treats, toys, self-care items, and practical essentials – chosen with care. For parents, these boxes offer relief during a financially stretched time. For children, they bring the wide-eyed excitement of unwrapping something special. And for the whole community, they represent a reminder of the power of compassion. 

You can help spread the magic by: 

Making a box: Fill a shoe box with small gifts – from chocolates and toiletries to toys and cosy socks (clear guidelines online). 

Donating £25: Short on time? Volunteers will happily create a box on your behalf. 

Spreading the word:Share the appeal with friends, colleagues, schools and community groups. The more people involved, the more lives touched. 

Even one box can have a ripple effect, carrying with it the heartfelt message: you are seen, you are valued, you are not alone. 

At its heart, the Shoe Box Appeal is about more than what’s inside the wrapping paper. It’s about weaving a stronger, kinder Buckinghamshire – one where no one feels forgotten during the festive season. For those giving, the act itself is as rewarding as the gift, reminding us all of the joy in helping others. 

As the Kindness in Bucks team enter their third Christmas , everyone is invited to play a part – whether by creating a box with your children, rallying your workplace, or simply donating. 

Please visit kindnessinbucks.com/post/christmas2025 (or scan the QR code) for full info about shoe boxes & to donate. 

Sing along with Gareth Malone 

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Choirmaster Gareth Malone OBE invites you to Sing-Along-A-Gareth: 50 Years of Song which arrives at Wycombe Swan on Wednesday, 3rd December 

Britain’s favourite choirmaster, Gareth Malone OBE, is back on tour with his new live show. Best known for inspiring the nation through hit BBC series The Choir and the chart-topping success of the Military Wives Choir, Gareth now invites audiences to take part in an uplifting, feel-good night that proves singing really is for everyone. 

Backed by his stellar live band, singers, and local choirs, Gareth will guide the audience through five decades of iconic music – from Queen’s Bohemian Rhapsody and Beyoncé’s Single Ladies to Whitney Houston’s The Greatest Love of All, Avicii’s Wake Me Up and Lizzo’s Juice. The evening culminates in a roof-raising medley designed to have the entire theatre on its feet, belting out the hits together. 

Gareth says: “These singalong tours are the highlight of my year. The joy, energy and sense of community that comes from hundreds of voices joining as one is something truly special. I can’t wait to get on stage and celebrate my 50th birthday with 50 incredible songs that mean so much to us all.” 

With his trademark warmth and enthusiasm, Gareth makes sure no one feels left out. Whether you’re a confident singer or simply love a good tune, this is a night for you. Book at wycombeswan.co.uk 

Fantastic Fleet Christmas Festival

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Fleet Christmas Festival is on Wednesday, 26th November, and each year it gets better and better, Sue Tilley tells us what’s in store

There are so many reasons not to miss the biggest and most magical event in Fleet. So, what’s happening this year? 

Open to absolutely everyone from noon–9pm, and located along the whole length of Fleet high street (as well as in Hart Shopping Centre, Gurkha Square and The Harlington), this huge festival really has something for all ages, including:  

The switching on of the beautiful Christmas tree lights in Gurkha Square 

A truly enormous Christmas Market in the high street with over 100 stalls selling festive food, drink & gifts – think mulled wine, chestnuts, hot chocolate, sweets and every street food you can imagine! 

Brilliant street entertainment with stilt walking angels, bubblers and much, much more 

A live stage with carols sung by local school children and performances from our very own local panto cast – this year’s panto is Rapunzel and tickets are available via The Harlington Box Office at theharlington.co.uk 

Lovely local charity/community stalls, a live nativity, mobile farm and more in Gurkha Square 

Santa’s Grotto (with welcoming elves) in The Harlington 

A very special Kids’ Zone in The Harlington with crafts, activities & bouncy Snow Globe! 

A thrill packed funfair in the car park of the Emporium Pub 

Santa’s very special Post Office (where elves will help youngsters write and post their lists to the Big Man!), a fun and festive Hart of Craftmarket, plus other games, music and attractions in Hart Shopping Centre. 

This really marks the start of the festive season and brings the spirit of Christmas alive!  

This huge event is run by a small group of local volunteers, working with Fleet Town Council.  

“There’s something really special about having our festival right in the heart of Fleet” says Janet, Chairman of the Festival Committee, “it brings our community together with lights, laughter, and the magic of the season — a joyful start to the most wonderful time of the year! We are so grateful for the support of the wonderful local businesses and organisations, who sponsor this great event, and, of course, to the many thousands of people who come along to enjoy all the fun on offer! Do come and join us!” 

Follow our website fleetchristmasfestival.org for regularly updated information on all that will be happening. 

Holly Scott celebrates double award 

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Well done to local interior designer Holly Scott who has scooped two national awards and is sharing her creative home truths in Benson on 7th November and beyond 

Benson-based interior designer Holly Scott is celebrating double success after winning two silver awards at the prestigious Best Businesswomen Awards 2025. 
 
Founder of Holly Scott Interior Design, Holly was honoured for Best Customer Service and Best Creative Business, recognising her commitment to creating stylish, functional homes that reflect her clients’ personalities and lifestyles. 
 
Known as “The Happy Home Designer”, Holly brings a luxury yet approachable touch to every project, drawing on her background working with top brands including Harrods, Ralph Lauren and Harvey Nichols. “These awards celebrate creativity, resilience and customer care – all values that sit at the heart of what I do,” she says. “I’m incredibly proud to see my passion for helping people create homes they love being recognised at a national level.” The Best Businesswomen Awards, now in their 11th year, celebrate the UK’s female entrepreneurs. Winners are selected by an expert panel for their innovation, leadership and commitment to excellence. 
 
Locals will have a chance to meet Holly and hear more about her work at an event at her own home on Thursday, 7th November, where she’ll share her design tips and creative process. There will also be more opportunities to connect and find out how thoughtful design can transform your home.  
 

Visit hollyscottinterior design.co.uk where you can also download free tips for your own happy home.