Child Struggling at School? Practical Tips to Help Your Child Thrive

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July 1, 2025

Learning differences specialist Mary Mountstephen advises you to take steps early on, with ‘Jake’ & ‘Tania’ as examples

Is Your Child Struggling at School? How to Recognize Signs and Support Them

If your child is having difficulties at school, you may notice signs like anger, anxiety, or tearfulness. Understanding the reasons behind these struggles is essential to provide the right support.

Tania’s school has observed some challenges but hasn’t yet suggested additional help beyond classroom efforts. Jake’s teacher offers reassurance but can’t be there during meltdowns at home. With schools facing tight resources, many parents feel overwhelmed when their child struggles with learning.


Practical Ways to Help a Child Facing Challenges at School

Supporting a child who finds school difficult isn’t always easy, especially if you aren’t a teacher. Your child might resist extra work, and you may feel unsure how to help effectively. Many parents seek outside assistance when unsure how to proceed. For guidance, check out our learning difficulties support guide.


When Should You Consider Specialist Help?

Schools are the first place to turn for support, but limited resources can restrict what they offer. Parents often explore tutors as an option for children who need extra help. Tutors can provide individual, group, or online sessions tailored to your child’s needs.


Tips for Finding the Right Tutor for Your Child

To find a good tutor:

  • Ask your school or local community for recommendations.
  • Choose tutors with special educational needs (SEN) qualifications.
  • Check if they offer a free consultation to assess fit.
  • Clarify your goals and teaching preferences.
  • Request testimonials and examples of past success.

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What to Expect from Educational Support Services

A professional tutor will adapt lessons to your child, provide timely feedback, and maintain a consistent schedule. Some children need short-term support; others may require ongoing help. Early intervention often improves school experiences and builds confidence.

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Email Mary on kcsmary1@gmail.com

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